Despite this, Cal was actually secretly bisexual, and had feelings for Derek but never acted on them, most likely due to his homophobic father. He began dating his now-wife, Marsha, when they were both 17. It is strongly implied that he had a difficult relationship with his own father as well.
Much like his son Nate Jacobs, he was popular and athletic, participating on the wrestling team with his best friend Derek who he spent every day with.